Priceless
Men who I kinda look to these days... seems to have one thing in common. A father. A father dedicated to their upbringing. The Holy Quran tells the story of Luqman al-Hakim teaching his son. يبنى لا تشرك بالله [Q31:13 | QA] It's so beautiful! Of course, there are men who have issues with their father but turns out excellent as well - like Abraham. [Q19:46 | QA] Either way, I enjoy seeing good men.
Though in this age where sperms can be recklessly abandoned; may I say this. Mankind will lose out if we follow lust & abandon something more priceless. Family. So guys. It only takes one sperm to become your child - a baby wondering who you are, where you are, do you love him. So please safeguard your egg seeking sperm, as it affects someone for his lifetime. If one says this is the age of lust, a man can't help it. Well... if the handsome Joseph can guard his purity, why not. انه عبادنا المخلصين [Q12:24 | QA]
There is a long term value in a man keeping purity. When every child has a father & stable family, society will be stable God Wills. And even a strong man will grow old. One day, you may need your son to carry, feed, bath you. بعد قوة ضعفا [Q30:54] Will you have someone on that day?
Anyway, I wonder if other men desires this. "... he felt so happy when his child grab on to his hand when they cross the street, that heroic feeling of being protective to this little precious human is... wow..." wrote on Sep 19, 2007. Do you think, if a man is serious he's happy you're pregnant; else he is darkened? Ladies having a loving husband & family welcoming her birthing is nicer.
Oh, & Abraham became a wonderful father! The patriach. ❤ الحمد لله
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