
Fun Baby Shower Invitation [party]
Baby hair shaving for muslims (◠v◠)
I'm tempted to give my views on some issues. But it is
Ramadhan, and it is the month of restrain. Perhaps this is not the time? Or is it?
والله أعلم. Yes, I prefer if I can go to my
Hira Cave (
قلم qalam) and contemplate fully before saying. So foremostly, I'm sorry if ever. (◠-◠)v

Well ... The news is reporting about teenage pregnancies. And you know, the teaching of birds & bees. If anybody cares (ha ha, yeah I have to say that) - for me - my education is from the Quran & Hadith. Believe it or not, it's there, sweetheart. E.g: the Quran revealed you're from a sperm burst forth.
ألم يك نطفة من مني يمنى [
Q75:37],
أفرأيتم ما تمنون [
Q56:58] I can imagine the hilarity of "Mommy, what is semen burst forth." (◠v◠)
The male sperm, female egg, fertilization, fetal development in the womb, birth ... way to the death. The afterlife. It's all stated in the Quran & Hadith. [
QA Body |
Man]
So yeah. Muslim kids should've known their body.
And when I was a child, my
ustazah (teacher) did told us about puberty. It's an age when deeds start to be
recorded. The sign is women has menses & men has
the dream:
وإذا بلغ الأطفال منكم الحلم [
Q24:59] ...
الحلم is "dream", right? And when you reach that age, you are accountable.
.................................. mitzvah ..................................
الزاني لا ينكح
إلا زانية أو مشركة
والزانية لا ينكحها
إلا زان أو مشرك
وحرم ذلك على المؤمنين[
Q24:3]
لا يزني الزاني حين
يزني وهو مؤمن[
SB8.81.773]
the light marks
the believer (
إيمان)
So yes. The Quran & Hadith do teach the birds & the bees. & the Laws.
We simply abide. Intimacy outside of marriage is wrong, even going near it is wrong.
ولا تقربوا الزنا إنه كان فاحشة وساء سبيلا [
Q17:32],
والذين هم لفروجهم حافظون [
Q70:29] Just follow it, simple as that. I read people say abstinence doesn't work - but how do a
sperm meets an egg if you abstain? For assault cases - it is a crime - preventing it requires more than education, it needs a strong justice system.
OK. So yeah do I sound like the religious zealot? Of course, muslims do have intimacy. In marriage - full of love, families & blessing.
فاظفر بذات الدين [
SB7.62.27 |
spirit] This is the right way. The wedding, gifts, celebrations. Then when the wife gave birth, her baby will be held by the father. & he will recite the
azan &
iqamat (
call of prayer) to her/his ears. The grandparents will bumble in joyousness, "come everybody I'm giving
aqiqah!" & everybody cuts strands of the baby's hair lovingly, the weight of his hair in silver is given to charity. Blessed ... .:(◠v◠):.
الحمد لله
Please note
Muslims have laws even in regards to the body. E.g: if one has an intimate discharge, he must bath the whole body (
ghusl) before performing the
daily prayers.
وإن كنتم جنبا فاطهروا [
Q5:6],
إن الصلاة تنهى عن الفحشاء و المنكر [
Q29:45] Thus ever since puberty, even as a teen, there is an envelope of purity -
this is faith when its delight enters the hearts
بشاشته القلوب and mixes with them completely.
Under Allah's Care, may we be
pure just as Prophet Joseph.
Surah An Noor (The Light) which revealed about intimacies - also revealed about light brightening the darkness. Prophet Joseph did fear he'll be among the ignorant if he succumbed.
وإلا تصرف عني كيدهن أصب إليهن وأكن من الجاهلين [
Q12:33]
❤ the light must conquer the heart
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